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Q: I feel like I am always the one to initiate plans with the new guy I am dating. Is that ok? – Kayla
Hi Kayla,
I know what you mean. I’ve definitely been where you are before – feeling like you are putting forth all of the effort which inevitably leaves you wondering, “is he really that into me?” But I need more to your story to really help. The data that is missing is, is he ready and willing to do stuff when you ask, or is he hesitant? This is a big difference to pay attention to.
If the situation is such that you are always asking and he is sometimes into hanging out but not most of the time – PAY ATTENTION! Simply, he’s not so into you. You are not a priority.
BUT…
If most of the time you suggest plans he is game, then you are in good shape! You see some guys (and some women too) are just not that aggressive when it comes to making plans. They are more laidback. And with a girl like you always doing it for them, they don’t have to be. I’m not saying you should stop and see what happens because then you would just be playing a game. What I’m saying is that you need to pay attention to the outcome, not how you get there. If you are getting what you want – a lot of great time with him, then who really cares who initiates?!
SWAK,
Tristan
