When it comes to attracting men, many women have it all wrong! Studies show that rockin’ a skimpy black dress, heavy makeup and big, bold jewelry is the opposite of what most guys are attracted to.  This look, or a variation of it can come across as high maintenance, intimidating or unoriginal depending on the guy. So then, what to wear? Opt for bright colors on top – jewel tones look great on every skin tone, make your eyes pop and send a message that you are fun and confident. Skip patterns, which detract from your face and can falsely add weight (particularly floral which gets a big thumbs down from guys). Hair and makeup should appear beautiful but natural (i.e. touchable) and jewelry, although it should be interesting, shouldn’t overpower an outfit. And just like in the game of flirting, your overall style should intrigue, but not give away your whole story. That said, choose one part of your body – the part you love the most and bare a bit of that. Although guys will self-describe themselves booty, breast or leg men, they are actually most attracted to subtly revealed neck and shoulders, so consider those as options too.  Remember that your smile is your ultimate accessory and only your winning personality will keep him around once you’ve lured him in.