While we all know that the notion of “opposites attract” is delightfully appealing since we find the new and mysterious exciting and therefore magnetizing, but it is actually our similarities that build a truer connection. That said, when first beginning to get to know someone, don’t dismiss what authentically makes you two “click” by only focusing on what makes you uniquely you. The easiest and most effective ways to do this are by: 1) Uncovering your similar interests which will allow the two of you to envision enjoying those things together, 2) Sharing personal things about yourself which will showcase healthy vulnerability, and 3) Offering a casual touch which will build an affectionate foundation. These methods will bind you and Mr. New in a genuine, lasting way which can set the stage for deep emotional intimacy unlike the quick high of discovering what is so divinely different about you and him. Here’s to the click that helps you stick!