Sure, she who gets a double take walking into a bar may mirror a long-legged magazine model, upright, head to the sky, channeling her mother’s divine wisdom to “walk tall” but most commonly, she who actually gets approached is the woman who has a more lounge like demeanor. According to men, standing rigidly, having your shoulders arched back, crossing your arms or even having a tightly wound updo are all indications that you are likely uptight, disinterested or just plain arrogant. Rather, a woman who is resting comfortably and casually gives off a vibe of friendliness and down-to-earthiness. She is a girl that wants to be approached, that be approached! So the next time you are in a social situation, let your hair down, relax your shoulders, slouch a bit even, and watch how men swarm to you like bees to honey.