Oftentimes, at the beginning of dating, both boy and girl can have high alert on – looking for reasons not to commit. And one of the biggest, and most legitimate turnoffs for women is inconsistency. You know, like Katy Perry says, “he’s hot and he’s cold…” It drives us crazy! Trying to predict whether he will call or not call, be into us or not be into us. Well, it turns out, emotional games and downright erraticism drives guys equally insane. So, although consistency may not be the sexiest move you can rock, it may be one of the best dating moves you can employ. You see, lots of guys, even unbeknownst to themselves, have trust issues and inconsistency shows inability to be trustworthy. Other times, it just demonstrates that you are self-centered, disorganized or a hot mess! Either way, again, it is a turnoff to guys. So, become super conscientious of how consistent you are in that getting to know you period. Show up with the same personality time and time again – don’t be bubbly one date and then super bitch the next. Behave the same way every time you see your guy – don’t go from polite to impolite. Do what you said you would do – if you said you would DVR a show for him, be sure to do it… and chances are, you will get all of the above in return.