Dating is a 2-way street… no matter how new or old school your philosophy is. The whole point of a date is discovery after all, so you’ve got to get in the pool and swim around with your date. This means, when on one, you need to contribute to the experience at hand. By doing so you will actually create an experience worthy of evaluating. Here’s how: 1) Be sure to contribute to the conversation. Of course listening is good – but you need to chime in as well. Answer your own questions if you aren’t getting asked any! 2) Express yourself through your body language. Ditch the prim and proper body language and naturally express yourself – smile when something delights you, raise an eyebrow when you are lost – be present with your body! The main point here is that you do NOT want to hide out on a date. You want to be transparent in all your gorgeous-ness so that you can have an authentic experience, one that gives you a preview of intimacy and can show you if you want to move forward to a next date!

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