By now I’m sure you’ve spent more than enough time dreaming of your dream love partner. When you close your eyes, you likely have some particulars that come to mind about what this magnificent marvel will be like. Maybe he loves tennis as much as you do so that you can wake up before sunrise together and hit the court for an early match. Maybe you envision cozy weekend nights at home stimulating each other with intellectual conversation. Or perhaps the first thing that comes to mind is a RICH man – a man with lots of money in the bank that either equals yours or allows you too to have financial security and wild opportunities. The point is, whatever is that you know you want, there are specific places to go to find matches who can deliver on those desires. If you want a tennis lover, join a tennis club, tennis groups, frequent the tennis pro shops. If you want an intellect, spend time at the library, at book signings of fave authors, go to lectures. Want a rich guy? Hang where the rich hang…. golf clubs, charity functions and swanky hotels. Instead of asking love to come to you, leap to it!

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