Have you ever disliked a guy your BFF was dating? For whatever reason you thought this guy is not good enough for my her! Of course, you have. We all have. Isn’t it amazing how high your standards are for OTHER people but when it comes to yourself, not so much. In a million years you would never let your best gal pal, your sister, your divorced mother or any other wonderful woman in your life settle for anything than the very best, right? It is time to raise your own standards to those that you have for the women in your life. Think of the most amazing woman that you know – your grandma, your mom, sister, aunt, teacher, business colleague, favorite writer, whoever comes to mind when you think, this is a woman who deserves the oeey gooeiest, most healthy, gorgeous kind of love in the world. Then, the next time you are deciding if a man is right for you, channel her and ask, is he good enough for her? Would I object to their union? If you would, you need to skyrocket your standards!