I get so many inquiries asking how to become a great flirt. To be honest, some people I think are just born with it (ever been wooed by a baby in a grocery store checkout?) and others have to learn the art. Here’s the thing though, while there are certainly good general tips (you can find some on this site and some in my book), your flirting style should be personalized. A good way to exercise your flirting muscles and to explore new styles is to think of your flirting hero. Is it Angelina Jolie (stealth & sexy), Kate Hudson (carefree & fun), Zooey Deschanel (sweet & demure)? Although you may never have seen her in flirting action, you can probably imagine what she would flirt like… how she would move her hair, her body, what she would say with her eyes and her mouth. Feel free to try on various ones to see which one fits you best to become the framework for you very own signature flirting style.