Everybody wants an abundantly rich, gorgeous love-filled life. And in my opinion, it is achievable by ANYONE regardless of your history, circumstances, or otherwise. To get there, sure you need the right attitude, but you also need a team… a dream team to help you along the way. By having a team of supporters, and I’m not talking about your mom, sister and BFF (although they are important too), but rather objective and knowledgeable professionals, you can become intimately enlightened through and guided by to help you make the best decisions, perfectly tailored to you.

So how do you build this dream team? Well, begin by identifying your needs. What do you need in your life to make you feel whole and at your best? Is it sound finances? A healthy body? A great partner? More time for fun? A stimulating career? Once you have identified those things, begin recruiting. Trust me, there are coaches for aspect of your life. Before you commit to any of them though, interview them. Ask them about their personal history, philosophy and approach to coaching. Uncover small but important details – do they take insurance, are they strict about appointment scheduling, do they offer discounts, are they available after hours, do they give homework, etc. You will arrive at coaching success only if you have the right coaches on your team. The right coaches will be encouraging but not pushy, directional but not forceful. They will pay attention to you and your evolving needs, and evolve with you. And above all else, a great coach will help you unearth your true potential and inspire you to rise to it, all the while holding you accountable for your actions.

The bottom line is that you can’t achieve a happy, healthy romantic love life if you don’t have all of the other areas of your life sorted out. Achieving financial, mental, physical and spiritual health are all prerequisites to achieving love health. It may not be an easy journey to get there, but when you do, it will have been well worth the investment, for you and your partner.

Live and love largely,
Tristan