I get it. Sometimes we have not so nice thoughts run through our minds. Sometimes they are legit and other times they are just reflections of our own insecurities. But the thing is, men largely don’t want to hear your daggers towards other women, strangers and friends alike. No matter what you are saying, if it sounds unkind, men will judge you, not her for the rude remark. On the flipside, women who are nice to other women including her friends, waitresses, his sister, his female colleagues, etc will score big points. In a world full of cattiness and gossip, men are refreshed by a woman who can rise above the low-brow drama and be secure enough in herself to keep her trap shut! After all, any glimmer that shows you might be a future contender on Real Housewives automatically takes you off the dating block