We ladies love to know what our guy is thinking. Sometimes because we are interested, other times because we are worried, and yes admittingly, on occassion becasue we are feeling insecure. We wonder and wonder, “Why doesn’t he ever open up!?” What I’ve learned over teh years and through the men is that when he is totally into you, you don’t even have to ask… and when you do, he can’t stand it. Guys often more at a slower (and IMHO opinion, smarter) pace than women. They need to build trust before exposing their vulnerabilities. When he gets there, you may not be able to get him to shut up. If you push, he will likely resist and even if he doesn’t, he may wind up resenting you for forcing him. Be patient, create an environment of genuine trust… he’ll get there eventually!