Just as most women love a guy who can make a decision, men also appreciate a decisive woman. Decisive women are confident women and confident women usually are secure women… security being a highly desired attribute for any healthy man. Now let’s be clear – this doesn’t mean you have to lead every decision and in fact, you shouldn’t. What this means is that you shouldn’t feel inhibited by a decisive man. Your opinion matters too! And you want to start early, with the little things so that when bigger issues roll around, you are comfortable and he is expecting you to speak up for yourself. So the next time a date offers you, say two choices for restaurants, instead of just deferring to him, state your opinion. Not only will you get what you want,but  he will be impressed by your ability to speak your truth!