Lots of women (and sometimes it seems, ALL men) rely on sexual innuendos to attract attention. And I get it… dirty talk is hot and can definitely be a turn on to a guy. But ask yourself, at what cost? Sure, your sultry speak may make waves in his pants, increasing his libido and therefore interest in you… however, it also has an equally high likelihood of creating an immovable perception of you in his mind… one that solely associates you, with sex. I’m not suggesting that you don’t want him to think of you sexually – of course you do! But you want his connection to you to be more well-rounded than that. You want to be sure that his next-day thought goes beyond a sexual one and is something that truly captures the unique and special woman that you are. So sure go ahead, be flirty, be sexy, be all that, but also be more than that… be something memorable.