Remember when boys on the playground used to show off for the girls? Like they would outdo each other on the pull up bar, try to get away with the most debauchery, or spray milk from their nose the furthest? Well their antics may have changed but their desire, now as grown man, hasn’t. Men like to impress women. Call it a caveman thing if you will, but as women, we need to cheerlead their efforts…e specially when it involves them making asses of themselves. So pay attention – when you are out on a date and you notice that a guy is saying or doing something to impress you, acknowledge it. The more you do, the higher his confidence and the higher his confidence in his actions, the more effort he will put into you.