We’ve all been there – on a date with a guy with a wandering eye. He thinks he is being slick but he is beyond obvious – his clever chit-chat with the waitress, his need to stretch his neck as the girl in the spandex skirt passes by… you get the idea. And how does it make us feel? Horrible, to say the least. But here’s a newsflash – we ladies aren’t so innocent when it comes to having peripheral flirting mechanisms. As a former bartender I can tell you, women do it just as much as men. this may seem obvious but as a former bartender i can tell you it happens all the time. So, if you want the courtesy of being paid attention to exclusively, stay focused on the guy in front of you and save your gazes for nights out with the girls.