Tristan Coopersmith: Love Stylist
Welcome to the new happily ever after!
Lately I’ve been obsessing over relationship status changes on Facebook. The complexity that this public display brings about has been written about many times over – that’s not what has me intrigued. What has me intrigued is the way that friends respond to relationship status updates. My research (it should be noted that it is…Read More
I’ll admit it. I like to be right. No, correction, I LOVE to be right. And in my former, less evolved life, being right was top priority in my relationships – romantic, professional, familial and otherwise. Being right felt good! It felt powerful and validating. But it also felt very lonely and shame ridden. Being…Read More
This time of year a barrage of pre-packaged, hallmark love wrapped in pink and red cuteness bombards us from every which way, forcing us to stare love in the face. From stuffed bears and singing cards to heart-shaped diamond pendants and 5-course dinner specials ending with a kissing swan soufflé, it can all make you…Read More
Being single on Valentine’s Day sucks. There I said it. And it isn’t just THE day that blows, it is all the days leading up to it. It is going to your local Target only to be bombarded with Valentine Day specials. It is the questioning of friends about what you will do on that…Read More
Calling all the single ladies! I have spoken to many of you in the past couple of weeks. It’s been a tough time for most of you. And believe me, I get it. I spent many a holiday on my own, wishing I had someone super duper special to exchange gifts with, to smooch under…Read More
Just because you WANT a relationship, doesn’t mean you are READY for one. Being in a relationship is a big responsibility. After all, it is about commitment. It is about dedicating your time and your emotional energy to someone else, to a partnership and to yourself in a new way. It isn’t like buying a…Read More
I’m not sure what age I uncovered that Santa, the Tooth Fairy and the Easter Bunny weren’t real, but I do recall being really, REALLY disappointed. Not only did I feel betrayed by my parents trust, I felt let down by magic. How could something that seemed to be so magical, be so unreal?! Eventually,…Read More
We all know that a relationship’s foundation must include honesty, communication, romance, a sense of humor and loyalty. Turns out that just isn’t enough. So, what else does it take to sustain a happy, healthy relationship? I’ve got five secrets to help put you and your sweetheart on the road to lasting relationship bliss. 1. “We” Time”:…Read More
On this week of thanks, I find myself like I am sure all of you, thankful for so many things. Among them though, and perhaps surprising to some of you, I am incredibly thankful for all of the heartbreak in my life. From my first “boyfriend” in fourth grade through the boy I sooooo loved…Read More
Ok, so maybe the female cast of Jersey Shore can pull off these looks, but ladies with class, ladies looking for the men I hear everyday they want – respectable men who treat them with respect, and relationships that are healthy, happy and sustainable, need to bury these traits, deep, NOW! 1. Ms. Desperado (i.e.…Read More
We all have our own definition of what it means to be physically slutty. Some of us may even be current or recovery sluts. But have you ever thought about if you are emotionally promiscuous? Being emotionally promiscuous can take an equal toll on our self-esteem as being physically promiscuous. Promiscuity is characterized as casual…Read More
I’m a big believer in universal energy. I believe that everything in the universe is on loan to us to leverage as we need. I believe that we are born to love and born to be loved. I believe that it is EVERYONE’S divine right to experience rich, gorgeous, healthy, sustainable love. But what I…Read More
To say that I am honored to have my darling friend Sarah McKinney guest blog this week is an understatement. Sarah is one of those rare gems who comes into your life one day, unexpected, to permanently change it for the better. Sarah’s impeccable insights on life and love are unparalleled and one of the greatest gifts…Read More
I’m pretty much obsessed with the Olympics. I love everything about it – the stories of perseverance, the hope of becoming a national champion and some kids hero, the grace of some events and the intensity of others, the camaraderie, the rivalries. I even love the fashion. The other night though as I was listening…Read More
When I recently asked a new client her tippity-top love styling goal, her reply was, “To find someone who will love me uconditionally.” My response, “There is only one person who can do that. And I handed her a mirror.” Call me cynical but I don’t believe in a thing called unconditional love, outside of…Read More
I love chit-chatting with men about dating… about getting what you all know I call, “The Boy’s Eye View.” Well, color me lucky because I have the divine pleasure of getting to deliver an exclusive post by the outstanding male novelist, Robert Manni, in connection with his hot-off-the-press book, “A Guy’s Guide to Love.” So…Read More
My darling sister in law, and top LA “on-a-dime” wedding planner superstar Liz was kind enough to bless us with a post this week. Read on to learn about all the awesome ways you get to spend your hard earned cash since you are not blowing it on overpriced wedding invites, cake and flowers! …Read More
When you believe in your awesomeness… others will too. It’s just that simple. Honestly. When you believe in your awesomeness, you radiate it. You shine all of the goodness that is within you out to the universe. And that goodness beams far and wide, just waiting to be caught by many a lucky recipient. When…Read More
Today marks my 3rd Anniversary. Three years ago today, at this time, I was en route towards my marital destiny. We wrote our own vows. I can remember adding finishing touches to them as I drove up the coast to Malibu, top down, the ocean breeze and the sun stroking me. I couldn’t wait to…Read More
Meet Mark. My dear friend. My dear talented, smart, sweet, funny friend, Mark. I met Mark just before he got married. Married for the third time. I distinctly remember him telling me how he knew this would be the last walk down the aisle. Alas, a few weeks ago, Mark signed divorce papers. For the third time.…Read More
