Just like people who want a healthy lifestyle might enlist the help of a trainer or nutritionist. to determine what about their current regimen is preventing them from becoming their ideal physical self, and then adjust it to get moving in the right direction… as a love stylist, I help my clients in a similar way, to help them create a healthy lovestyle.
So how do we do we get there?
Well, together, we uncover what is keeping you from having a satisfying, healthy love life, filled with exciting dates and meaningful relationships, and then we fix it. I develop a personalized program with measurable goals that allows you to maximize every moment of our work together, which teaches you to create the smart, positive love and lasting partnership that you want… that you deserve.
You might be thinking, is this like therapy? Will I lie on a sofa? Or cry my eyes out into a tissue box? Is hypnosis involved? Will I have strict rules to follow? Is Tristan going to be like Steve Ward or Patti Stanger and yell at me? The answer is a big fat, “NO” to all of the above! Well, with the exception of the tissue box (hey self discovery always involves a few honest tears, but trust me the laughs and smiles will balance them). Love styling is fun! Love styling is enlightening! Love styling is life and love changing! If it isn’t, I’m not doing my job right.
No two love styling programs, or even sessions within a program are the same. After all, no two women are the same so one size does not fit all when creating a love path. We are all a compilation of our experiences and since each one of our history book’s is different, the effect is different and the subsequent route to take to get to where we want to be, is different too. Therefore, we begin with a blank canvas and based on your background, your attitude, your personality and your goals, I develop a loose curriculum. Loose because just like love, self-improvement although a constant progression should be free-flowing, with allowance to exit off the original path, inviting exploration into new areas of growth opportunity. No matter how your path unwinds, I will be there to make sure your goals are achieved, holding you accountable and championing you every step of the way.
Here’s a sneak peek of some of the things we might cover:
• Identifying blocks to dating success
• Unearthing your worth
• Visualization to actualization of ideal love
• Breaking unhealthy habits
• Dissecting wants vs. needs
• Reprogramming negative thought processes
• Detoxing from an ex-love
• Flirting techniques
• Conversation skills
• Date planning
• Dressing for dating success
• Online dating skills
• Decoding man speak
• Sticky situation management
• Identifying where to meet men
• Balancing a busy life to make room for a relationship
• Communication techniques that lead to more effective relationships
The format of each session will vary, depending on the goal of the day, your mood, maybe even the weather. Sometimes, we will talk, talk, talk. Other times, we will engage in hands-on activities that will tap into your right brain potential to expose your heart in new ways and help us see more closely what your true desires are for your love future. And even other times we might take field trips. When we are not together, you will be responsible for continuing on your journey via simple homework assignments. Don’t worry, the tasks are easy, fun and tailored to your liking… and no, there aren’t any grades, just rewards in the form of self-awareness and evolvement.
No matter the roads we take, our journey together will include a lot of talking and a lot of listening. Talking that will involve me asking tough questions that will challenge you to think deeply… and intentional listening that helps us arrive at your core personality, core hurdles and core desires. We will travel together looking into your rear-view mirror to identify unhealthy habits and uncover their roots so that you can correct self-defeating behaviors and begin making positive dating choices. This way, you will move forward liberated, empowered and ready for mature love.
Solo or together with your friends, in-person (LA metro only) or via Skype, you will feel results immediately, as you begin your journey towards smart, positive and lasting love.